Recently Hilary, our managing director, got married and at a little pre-wedding tea party we threw for her, she told us a story about an early date with her now-husband Peter. The couple were having dinner in a Chinatown restaurant and at the end of the evening her fortune cookie read ‘You may only be one person in the world, but you may mean the world to one person’. At their wedding eight years later, she arranged for all the guests to receive a cookie containing this fortune as a surprise for Peter. She handed out some of the cookies to us in the office relaying this story and it floored us. Sweet, sentimental and heart-warming, it all gave us all a much-needed (well, in my case!) romantic perspective on the world. And timely, as the global population has now hit 7 billion.
Tumblr is one of the fastest-growing social sharing websites, jumping from 4.2 million users in 2010 to 13.4 million in 2011*. It’s a site where bloggers collect and share inspirational images, but equally popular on Tumblr accounts are quotations. Often anonymously written, they are re-posted by millions who believe in and want to share with others these simple and sometimes sentimental statements. Frequently motivational, romantic, comforting and inspiring, they have much in common with the fortune cookie, reminding us that, ultimately, you make your own fortune and happiness. Sometimes we just need a little reminder. ‘You’ll never know if you don’t go; you’ll never shine if you don’t glow…’and ‘Now and then it’s good to pause in our pursuit of happiness and just be happy’ are two of my current favourites. It seems we are all craving fluffy, warming words now more than ever. 13.4 million Tumblr users can’t be wrong.
I actually started sending a little motivational slogan around to my friends and was shocked at how quickly it caught on. At the time I had been dating someone in finance; a very short, albeit sweet, relationship but I took away something from the experience. The man in question was a banker, very successful and an expert at getting what he wanted. At the end of a text, he would often write ‘say yes’ and I always would before even thinking about it. I tried this technique on my friends and it worked just as well. ‘Cheeky Monday night drink? Say yes,’ They always would and, in turn, they used the phrase back at me. Maybe it was no coincidence that Dale Carnegie in his book How to Win Friends and Influence People says, ‘A yes is magic in business. It sets the psychological process of the listeners moving in the affirmative direction and gets the other person saying ‘yes’ immediately.’
But more than just a trick to getting another person to do what you want, this ‘Just say yes’ attitude struck such a chord with my friends it even appeared on a Facebook status. Because by simply saying ‘yes’ you are open to getting the most out of your life.
Unfortunately the relationship with the banker didn’t last long. As I explained to my friend, quoting something I read on Tumblr, ‘We were just dominos. I fell for him, he kept falling for another.’ She sighed and said, ‘Well you’ll be okay. Love is never linear. Everybody finds their somebody.’ I immediately felt better.
‘Smile like you mean it’ is a song by The Killers but also a popular Tumblr quote and a crucial element in Dale Carnegie’s theories on achieving a happy and successful life. He says ‘The expression one wears on one’s face is more important that the clothes one wears on one’s back’. He believes that even if you are not happy, force a smile and soon you will believe that you are. If you are having a problem with someone at work or in a relationship he suggests always be nice. Or even better, kill them with kindness. Essentially, whatever problem you’re facing, don’t let it affect you.
Similarly, you won’t fail to have noticed the incredible resurgence of the slogan Keep calm and carry on in recent years. A poster produced by the British Government at the start of the impending second world war, it resonates with us in today’s recession-hit times as a sign of courage that can help in almost any given situation; something we all need in life from time to time.
But back to the fortune cookie and the real message of this post. Huge congratulations to Hilary and Peter from all of us here at Focus PR. After all, Love is all you need.
*Source http://blog.comscore.com/2011/08/tumblr_user_growth_accelerates.html




